I used to be mean to people...I would

I used to be mean to people...I would say demeaning things to them. I remember several specific instances. I feel really bad about it. I realized that this was because of a lack of confidence in myself and also I wasn't being treated well by my step-mother and I learned this behavior from her.

I just feel bad and think about the mean things I used to say to some people and I wish I hadn't acted that way. I don't act like that now though. But I think about it a lot. I just wish I could apologize to those people...but I don't even know them anymore.

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  • The important thing is thatyou realised your behaviour was hurtful to others, therefore wrong.Be a better person from now on and all the guilt you feel about about the past will gradually fad away.We all have regrets by the only thing we can do is try not to make the same mistakes again.And you should be proud of yourself for accepting the true reasons behind your mean actions and doing something to change all that.Changing oneself for the better always takes guts. Take care

  • The important thing is thatyou realised your behaviour was hurtful to others,therefore wrong.Be a better person from now on and all the guilt you feel about about the past will gradually fade away.We all have regrets but the only thing we can do is try not to make the same mistakes again.And you should be proud of yourself for accepting the true reasons behind your mean actions and doing something to change all that.Changing oneself for the better always takes guts.Take care

  • I used to do stuff like that too when I was in middle school. Mostly it was what you said about a low self esteem, but also I did it to fit in with the popular crowd. I feel really bad for the things we used to do to the other girls at school, but I guess everyone has regrets like that.

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