How could he?
I just found out that my son is gay and has been married to who I thought was his roommate for almost 4 years. He never told me, came out to me, or anything like that because he was afraid that I would reject him.
I am anything but homophobic.
I am very hurt and very angry with him. How could he lie to me and deceive me for almost four whole years? How could he exclude me from such a huge part of his life, a part I should have been part of?
He has no idea just how much he's hurt my feelings. I don't know if I can ever believe anything he tells me anymore.