How could he?

I just found out that my son is gay and has been married to who I thought was his roommate for almost 4 years. He never told me, came out to me, or anything like that because he was afraid that I would reject him.

I am anything but homophobic.

I am very hurt and very angry with him. How could he lie to me and deceive me for almost four whole years? How could he exclude me from such a huge part of his life, a part I should have been part of?

He has no idea just how much he's hurt my feelings. I don't know if I can ever believe anything he tells me anymore.

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  • This would be the perfect time to accept him and move on with you and his new life. Gay women and men face rejection all the time from friends, coworkers, people they don't know, and family. Him hiding it was probably just his way for saying damn my mom means so much to me that I couldn't imagine losing her. He cares and didn't know how to tell you. Life is to short to be upset with him.

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