am i?

this past may, my boyfriend got into a car accident and died instantly. i loved him with all my heart and still do. i wanted to marry him and i miss him more and more everyday. but surprisingly his friends have taken me in and consistantly been making sure that im ok by hanging out with me or texting or calling me. my boyfriend was nineteen and im sixteen so his friends are all older than me, making them like older brothers to me...except one of them. yea, ive fallen for my dead boyfriends best friend..am i a completely horrible person?

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  • Horrible? No, but it proves that young people especially should not latch onto these feelings as if they intend to last for ever. Such love and commitment take life times. I would suggest you worry about finishing school and stuff before worrying aboyut love. Sorry for your loss.

  • ^ok man listen u need to shutup because i no its fun to make fun of people and make stupid comments on here but stop cuz i did that and i made a girl kill herself so shut the f*** up before you make the same mistake i made

  • No f*** these two. You are a horrible person. He passed what 4 months ago and you already fell for his best friend who for that matter is way older than you. That's f***** up and I hope he gives you herpes.

    Rack the Jipper

  • it's good that you're moving on! im sure he wouldn't want you to be miserable forever!! and don't let anyone tell you otherwise

  • Not horrible at all. Hey it happens. You fell for another guy. But just wait until you are old enough before talking about marraige though. But I see nothing wrong here. You just miss your boyfriend and rightfully so. But if he loved you the way you said he did, he'd want you to be happy. No matter who that person was.

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