Revenge instead of turning the other cheek
I do not forgive certain crimes and wrongs. Forgiving an unrepentant wrong doer encourages the wrongdoer to continue hurting people. My first cousin was sexually molested by her own father so why forgive him?
Investigating her fathers first marriage it turns out he was also caught molesting his daughter by that marriage. The word for people like him is shorteyes in prison and thats where he needed to end up.
You can forgive all you want to but not me.