I discovered my husband with his best man on bed a week after our honeymoon; was so devastated and on the verge of leaving the marriage then. Throughout courtship for 2 years, I never suspected them. Hubby begged asked me to leave if I wanted to and bragged that he will not drop his "heartthrob". Well I was encouraged by a friend of mine not to leave but to use the "weapon of love" which does not fail. I began to fast and pray and ask God earnestly to restore the man I married; to heal my home. It took 2 long years of agony but what happened next was stupefying, it was the "heartthrob" that found Christ first and broke the relationship. Next, the heartbroken man had nobody to lean on but "his wife" and that she did. It was the grace of God in nursing the heartbroken husband that made him to experience salvation and the desire to "go through a man's butt" left.
Many a time, we can achieve a lot through love than hate.
1 John 3:15 Anyone who hates a brother or sister is a murderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal life residing in him.