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He's been married for as long as we've been "hanging out". I saw it as just someone to have fun with, no strings attached. After a few yrs he told me he loved me but I thought of it as friend love, not in love. We stopped seeing each other for 2-3 yrs, but still had social media. I got married in the meantime. We recently connected again for dinner a few times nothing more. He's getting divorced and said he regrets not fighting for my love. I told him I'm not leaving my husband nor cheating on him. He understands and just wants to spend time with me. I feel that us spending time with each other might lead to more. I wanted to kiss him so badly the last time we met up (blame the vodka). I like having this secret friend to go out with. I should stop including martinis for dinner I guess.
You don't need fewer martinis. You need MORE martinis. And you need to start up an affair with this guy. Like TONIGHT!!!
Why?
Stupid dishonest advice.
Just ** him
Once or many times?
You don't need to stop including the martinis. You need to stop seeing him altogether. Whatever happens, this will NOT end well. And you know that.