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That I have never had a crush on a guy since elementary school. I'm a girl in high school and have always been set up on dates by friends but find each one repulsive and annoying. Why can't I just find someone.
Maybe your gay?
Try just enjoying the guy for a while. Look for the good in him. Live in the moment for a bit longer. Maybe you will get to know him deeper and who knows fall in love.
I know it seems like it will never happen. And telling you to "be patient" sounds like a dismissal. The reason the set-ups are annoying is because you haven't invested anything in the potential relationship: they were brought to you and laid at your feet. You strike me as the kind of girl who doesn't want that. Once you begin to meet more male people, and interact with them on a more personal (but non-romantic) basis, the more organic the whole process will feel, and you will -- perhaps -- come to actually enjoy the dating process. And then when you -- one day, but perhaps not soon -- meet someone you are actually attracted to, all of this will have been your testing and preparation period (you may think of it as R&D), and you will be happy for the time you spent. You are obviously a thoughtful, sensitive, introspective and self-aware young woman, and those traits will -- BELIEVE ME -- be very much appreciated by men. Boys? Maybe not so much. :) I wish you happiness and success. Be well.