There is a small group of 6 guys I regularly hook up with bareback. They don't know about each other. Then there is the occasional stranger I meet on tinder too. I had to have my IUD removed for medical reasons. I never told any of them because I didn't want it to end. I admit that it was exciting to take that risk without them even knowing. I went the first two months and didn't get pregnant until now. I was very late on my period so I got a tester. I'm officially pregnant. Now I'm nervous. If I think back on the timing, the father could be any one of 4 guys. If my timing is off, there are 8 potential fathers. I feel guilty even telling any of them. I see it as my fault and that I should burden it all by my self. But is that fair to them? Maybe they want to be a father figure. I wouldn't force it on them. I can financially handle this on my own, no problem, and I'm not interested in monogamy. I don't know how to do it.