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Baby too soon
I'm pregnant after dating a guy for 7 weeks. I'm 38 and shocked I got pregnant so quickly. I want to keep the baby. . .he wants me to terminate. I respect his feelings and I understand them. I don't know what to do.
My cousin had a baby at 38 too. She already had 2 from before. The kid is a total ** and She knows it too.just got out of prison. I told Her then to get an abortion. I was going to throw him off a balcony when he was little. I wish I would have. Too late to breed;
OK. But this post is 10 years old.
Who gives a ** what he wants?
How far along is the pregnancy?
I call **
i totally concur.
I think you should follow your gut instincts here you're the one that is pregnant and ok you said you respect this guys wishes but I think you should have a word with your doctor about giving birth at your age but if you want to have the baby and you are willing to bring it up and love the child then I think you should have it ....at the end of the day it is your decision and you have to stand by that decision whatever that will be ....its a human life we are dealing with here and you have to strongly consider that ...but I'm sure whatever decision you come to will be the right one for you ...the very best of luck to you I wish you well.
these are all excellent observations. listen to them all.
Its simpel she screamed when he was pumping now she must liv wit it
You are the one person that could have absolutely prevented this **, and now you have to live with the consequence.
When I was hooking up with a woman and she "said be cool I'm not on birth Control", I pulled my spermshooter right out of her **....
Given your age, adoption, and move on. While they are in there have them tie your tubes so this doesn't happen again.
Good luck
U were great man 2 pull it out i always put it up to the roots
To be honest I'd be a bit worried about giving birth at your age. For the potential child's sake as much as your own. Also consider what a massive burden the child will be on your life even if it is fully formed and healthy and the birth is uncomplicated. Especially if you're single. Having a child will alter every single part of your life, often for the worse. It will become much, much harder. And the child, no matter its temperament, will be totally incapable of appreciating anything you do for it. Just please keep all those things in mind. Should you keep it, good things may result, who knows... but make sure to take every consideration in hand before you decide.
Find a man slightly older than you who has no children. He will love to be with you and to raise that child as his own. Don't waste your time with the bio father: give him a deadline and if he doesn't meet it, he loses his rights to claim paternity. The new man in your life then can adopt the baby. Good luck!
did you ever have an abortion before? more than one?
commonplace occurrence anymore. it will be okay.
Keep the baby sweetheart. He or she will love you long after the guy is gone. There's nothing more wonderful than the way a child loves you. You can't buy love like that at any price. You're carrying your best friend inside you honey.
**. There's absolutely NO guarantee that the child will automatically love you. In fact most children are apathetic towards or actively dislike their parents even into adulthood. And often for good reason. All that romantic "your best friend is inside you!" nonsense needs to die in a fire. Furthermore, bringing a child into the world for your own selfish wants or needs is INCREDIBLY wrong and ** up and will only lead to a ** up childhood for the poor thing.
awwww, did mommy not wuv you?
Aww, did Mommy "wuv" you a little TOO much?
I kept my baby even though my boyfriend didn't want it. He split, but within about 18 months I found an older guy who not only loved me but loved my little girl, and we're very happy now.
Do you have any other children?
if you arent very far along just keep it for a little while longer and see if the father changes his mind or if you may even change your own. dont be in a hurry just yet to do anything.
There is comfort in numbers, so it helps to know you aren't alone. Plenty of girls have dealt with this and survived, regardless of the choice they made. And so will you!!
do you and the father love each other