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3 child fear
My husband and I have decided to have a third child. But we have twins the first go and needed tons of help (all kinds) . Now the twins are older . We have both wanted another for a while .
But I think our parents was FREAK and be angry.
I think I might regret not having a 3rd. I think it will be a great addition to our family .
I could wait a few more years and earn a few more bucks .. Did any feel like this ? What did you do?
Look fool, there are many, many more concepts that deem this a black/white issue than a grey one. Although I commend you for giving this serious consideration prior to conception in lieu of second guessing later, you must avoid initiating a pregnancy. By this I mean a better option would be to undergo a tubal ligation. That would render more time in the future for you to be enjoying yourself than tying yourself up for an additional 20 years. Tried & true!!
Be content with the children you both already have. The more children you have, the less money and time you'll have. Come on, don you think two are enough?
Stop! Don't do it! You are going to regret it!
Only have a child if you are 100% ready. If you are still developing your career, I'd wait a bit.
If you have twins the second time, sell one. Did I see that you can get about $10 for a baby. I reckon you could get more. Find a rich family and ask them to support the twin you keep. private school and so on.