Cat fishing this guy and don't know how to tell him :(
So let me start at the beginning. A couple years ago, I thought my ex was cheating on me, so I created a fake Facebook account to see if he was, and sure enough, I caught him. Him and "this other girl" (me) started dating and the Facebook profile went from there. He eventually found out and we haven't talked since.
Now... a couple days ago, this guy messaged me on the same Facebook, and we've been talking. I really like him and we have a lot in common, and I don't want it to go on for so long and hurt him. I just don't know how to tell him. He wants to do a video chat so we can talk, and I can't do that without exposing myself, so I want to do it before this happens... any advice? It would be appreciated greatly :(