Gay but having an affair with a woman

I have been in a homosexual relationship for 7 years with a guy I met at university. I love him and we moved into a place together after graduation. I have always liked men and all my previous relationships since my early teens have been same s** ones. However I have been having an affair with a female work colleague for the last 2 months. She is married and 16 years older than me. We were friends/work mates for a couple of years and she is very good looking, refined and elegant. I never thought it would be possible for me to be attracted to a woman but it's wonderful making love with her. I have never felt this way with anyone before. It feels so right.

Feb 8, 2017

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  • It sounds as though you are some form of Bisexual or Pansexual. It's only within the past two years I discovered I was bisexual. Sometimes you just find someone with that special something. And when you do, it doesn't matter what gender they are.

  • It will probably be sexual desires, as you said you know you still love him, i feel like there is no feelings involved but you feel good with her only when she is fulfilling your desire, and when your with him you feel good from within you are happy without doing nothing but just being with him, i suggest you spend more time with her having conversation dates, knowing each other time, and see if the spark is still there or what you feel is the same as what you feel for your boyfriend. After all you have been loving him for seven whole years so there are bound to be true feelings involved. :)))

  • It's natural as god intended not like your sinful relationship with another man. The a*** is for s*******.

  • You're a complete airhead!

  • Maybe you're sexually fluid. It happens. I deemed myself as straight for many years, but the last three years I've realised I'm pansexual/sexually fluid.

    I'm attracted to a person's inner attributes and depth's- regardless of gender. That's what attracts me to a person. And I think I've become this way over time.

  • You aren't sexually fluid. You're mentally fluid.

  • That's your opinion, not mine :)

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