Have a close friend and co-worker we were both married at the time. I was simply stating that I can't imagine what pleasure women would get out of giving head. She said "it's all a matter of control over the guy". I've never told her how much that drives me crazy and don't want to jeopardize our friendship, but it's a little quiet secret between the two of us I think anyways. I just about lost a load when she said that and every time the topic has come up again. She elaborated that she has complete power over her man when to let him c** or not. Slowdown and speed up at her desire. She squeezes just right when she wants and the funny thing is I really don't think she has any idea how much that does for me, because it started as a simple conversation. I wish secretly that she would have done the same for me. Do all women feel the same at times?