Scapegoats are strong!
If you're the family/office/friendship/class scapegoat, please know you are not weak, and there's nothing wrong with you.
You're the strongest of the bunch. That's why you're being targeted... because you won't fall in line. You won't pander to the bully, you won't do as they order you. You refuse to be moulded in to their little minion, their evil sidekick. Their plaything. You have a crazy strong sense of self.
Chances are you're not under their spell like those dumb hicks that agree with them all the time, or that engage in their gossip sessions or that ** at every little thing with them. They're the weak ones, too concerned with being liked.
You have a strong mind and refuse to follow a clearly dysfunctional, broken person masquerading as a leader. In fact, you are your own leader, and would happily follow or walk beside great, inspiring and mentally strong mentors and leaders, like yourself.
Don't be fooled in to thinking there's something wrong with you. Nah. Ain't nothing wrong with you!
Peace.
I'm that kid who did everything to fit in. The Queen bee let me into her group but only because she had the power over me and I did whatever she said. She sat beside me and put her hand on my leg and then up under my skirt and felt be up. Over time she controlled what I wore. She allocated others to feel me up and also I had to do the same to other students. One time I rebelled and that was a nightmare. She told everyone to not talk to me. I spent a week in an alone space
Wth are the pros to being friends with such a ** you dont need other people to improve yourself
Why are people supposed to improve someone??? Mind your own business
Omg I love this - thank you for posting this whoever you are xo
Same! Thanks, OP x