Wife won't cover up when breastfeeding

I was on an airplane once, a lady with a baby in her arms was in the window seat. The baby was fussing, she kept glancing at me, a gray haired grandfather type.
I knew the baby was hungry, so I got a blanket from the stewardess, but she said he gets frightened when his head is covered.
So, I told her to go ahead, It would not bother me, so she did, while I held up the blanket so the other passengers could not see.
Of course I could, no way to really not with her sitting right next to me.
I told her my wife breast fed our son, and I enjoyed watching that, a baby and Mother like that is beautiful.
Feeding a baby is normal stuff, it's just that society sexualizes it.
When we landed, the lady thanked me, which was nice.
Nothing ** at all, it's just a meal.

All said, I think women should not only be allowed to have their ** out for their kids to suckle, they should have their ** out all the time. You know, like men's **. For anyone who doesn't get it, that's sarcasm. Women's ** will always be sexual. Look at how women tease with them, look at the clothes they wear, look at the seductive way they undress, the ** bikinis they wear. They all know their sexual objects. Sure they feed babies too but women get aroused my breast squeezing and ** pinching so get off the high horse and admit that ** are utilitarian when there's babies around but they are ** little fun bags when it's just the adults around.

The friend probably didn't even look, he probably thought it was funny to yank his buddy's chain and get a rise out of him. I think this whole thing has been blown out of proportion.

Don't ever tell a woman when, where or how to breastfeed. Its her home if any woman want to just sit on the couch or restuarant with a room full of people and pull her breast out to FEED a child, she should be able to and no one especially her husband should do nothing but support her.
Yes I know this is an old post.

Women that show off their breast do so because they feel the need to fight for women's lib. It's the same reason why some women will attack another women just for making her husband a sandwich, or why some women feel the need to fight for equal employment and pay. Even though there are examples every day of major corporations such as John Deere that have just as many women executives as they do men. The team that I work on is split 50-50 with men and women and everyone is payed the same salary (I know their salary as I am the supervisor). My point is that this will never stop until some women feel they have been vindicated and all those who have wronged them and their ancestors have been put in their place as servants to pay for what their ancestors did. Here's the reason those women will never succeed though, their are too many women who actually do love their husbands and don't give a ** what some other woman has to say about making her husband a sandwich. There are too many woman who would rather stay home and raise their children rather than fight the corporate ladder. There are too many woman who have NOT been wronged by today's men and realize women's lib is just another ** ** fest instead of helping to make the world a better place.

FYI, I am a woman.

I agree with you. Today's world is very equal when it comes to life. You are not being held back just because you are a woman, or because you are black, or because you are gay. You are being held back because of YOU. You hold yourself back. Your life is what you make it, and if it's not what you think it should be, well than you change it. When was the last time someone said you can't have a job because you are a woman, or because you are black? Stop acting like you are oppressed, get up off your knee, take off that pink hat, and work for it like all the rest of us.

It's sad that some people can only focus on what is wrong in the world and never take the time to acknowledge all the good and advancements that's been made. You can have everyone working the same jobs for the same pay, living in nice houses and all but it just takes one racist and suddenly all of us are accused of being racists. I'm tired of it.

Peace and love to all!

The New Year is around the corner people. No more hateful words and thoughts against each other. No more misinterpretations, judgements, assumptions and slanderous statements made against others! Opinions should be based on factual evidence and not on personal prejudices/preconceptions created out of ignorance.

Try to show kindness and spread joy, anything is possible!

I think the key here is that your wife was feeding your kid, not pulling moves on your friends. She didn't ask for what went down.

And can this website get rid of the spammer person?

Most women are little more discrete when they know others are visiting. Especially if they are men. This woman wanted her husband's friend to see her breast, that's why she was in the kitchen for all to see.
I had breastfeeding shirts that allowed me to breastfeed and you couldn't even tell I was doing it. So I don't believe any woman needs to show the whole world her breast. They do it because they want to.

It's easy to forget yourself and whose in your surroundings, when your main concern is feeding your baby. Just my personal opinion.

Don't be ** her. She was breast feeding in her home, minding her own business. It's your friend that was invading her private time. He didn't have to look and didn't have to sexualize what your wife was doing. It wasn't a sexual thing, it was a natural maternal thing. Your friend was in the wrong and you should've told him that.

At the same time, your wife has to be more mindful when you have friend's over and be discreet when they're. To be honest, your confession perceives you in a negative manner in my opinion. Why have friend's over and leave your wife to rear your child alone whilst you relax and do whatever with your buddies? It's a team effort.
I understand you don't have the tools to breastfeed your child. But you should at least share the load if you don't already.

Stop thinking about your male pride and ego, it's not your wife's fault, she can't control the thoughts of your friend's.

You're a ** idiot. So just because you have a child you're saying they should never have friends over? Or are you sexiest and think that only the guys shouldn't come over?

The ** from you ** sexiest man hating feminist is getting old. You want your man to work two jobs and then come home and not only do all the fixing and maintenance on the house, car, and whatever, but you want them to clean the house, do laundry, cook, and pick up. Then you have the nerve to say "Well I've been home all day with your child so I'm going out with the girls" and expect him to stay home with the kid.

Then you ** when a man opens your door for you and say "I don't need a man to open my door", at the same time ** to your girlfriends that chivalry is dead. As you run around in your ** pink ** hats bashing on men saying "where are all the good men". You want to know where he's at? He's at home with your child thinking about divorcing your ** because you treat him like a ** doormat.

Lol you're the one whose sexist and an idiot. I for one don't believe in feminism, I believe in equality :)

I don't believe in female and male gender roles, it should be a team effort in all relationships regardless of gender and sexual orientation.

Partnership, equality, respect, compassion and open communication is the key to a great relationship/great parentage in my opinion - that's what I believe :)

As for myself, I'm respectful and appreciative of my partner - We're married in our hearts not on paper/our preference.

We both work, respect our time together and apart. We encourage and support each other on our personal endeavours. I actually encourage him to go out more with his friend's and he does the same with me. Even though we're each others bestfriend.

We both share the housework, cooking, cleaning, laundry, bills and house maintenance. Yes, I'm adept at tiling, plumbing, plastering and so forth - So is my partner. We open doors for each other and set each others baths.

So, you're indeed inaccurate about what I conveyed in my original comment. To be honest, you appeared gender biased, sexist and feministic.

Merry Xmas :)

I'm not talking about women or men who believe in equal relations. I'm talking about the men bashing feminist who hate men and march around in their pink ** hats calling all men **, like Ashley Judd.

You assumed I was one, as you stated it in your original comment. I confirmed in my previous comment, you're inaccurate and I even supplied information confirming your inaccuracy of me. I was direct and diplomatic in doing so, as well :)

I was simply correcting your assumptions, judgements and inaccuracies about me.

I wish you a Happy New Year and that you achieve everything you embark on :)

I can understand your point of view, as well as your wife's. Breastfeeding your child is natural and that particular time you're referring to, she was probably more concerned/focused on feeding your child and became absent minded regarding anyone else besides you seeing her with her ** out. To be honest, your friend shouldn't have commented about it. It was a sexual moment of her flashing her ** at him, she was in her own home feeding your baby which is natural. Its a case of her being less absent minded, when your friends are there and being more discreet. However like I stated before, it's easy to forget when your main focus is your child. Plus, its not your wife's fault your friend thought anything sexual about your wife's **. Perhaps you should've said to your friend that he was being disrespectful and shouldn't mention your wife's ** again. But because you didn't and straight away blamed your wife for the comment your friend made, it's obvious you blamed her because of your male pride. All while, she was naturally feeding your baby.

Your approach regarding the incident and how you dealt with it, could've been better. But at least your wife knows how you feel about it. I'd also suggest to tell your friend to be more respectful about your wife. To be honest, he didn't have to look. He could've easily not looked and not mention it. I'd be more concerned about your friend going your wife while she's feeding your child, than chastising your wife for being a great mother. She can't control the thoughts of your friend's.

Yeah that’s **. I wouldn’t want some guy gett8ng hiring over my wife’s ** and neither would she. For ** sake the people commenting are morons.

You going to flop them tities out at least let me ** on them too

Breastfeeding is just a natural human body function correct? And you shouldn't be offended by that right. So if I decided I need to take a ** and I flip my ** out right there on the street in front of everyone and ** on the curb than you shouldn't be offended. I mean having to empty your bladder is just a natural human body function.

** are a secondary sexual body part. You CAN take your shirt off in public, like she can.
Breast feeding isn't the same as dropping her pants, like you are pointing out.
See a difference?

Who are you to proclaim women's breast as a secondary sexual body part? Furthermore what the ** is a secondary sexual body part? And no, there is NO difference. It's all a natural human body function. So why would you be offended?

Primary and secondary..... you were never educated on that about simple body parts? Not worth arguing if you don't understand.

Well that's the know all be all. Wikipedia lol
Oh I understand that people like you have no respect for other people around you. You think everything is a political statement and have no real respect for your body or your child. You think just because you can that you should without repercussions.
Here's a good idea, the next time a woman feels the need to breastfeed in public, try using a little modesty. You wouldn't like it if some guy was ** on the curb when you walked by. That same guy doesn't want to see some woman's ** flashed about, just because she can.

Https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Secondary_sex_characteristic

Your wife probably thinks her ** are a tool at this point, but your friend is probably stroking out loads from seeing them. She might need to be more careful, but it's not like she breastfed in your man cave or anything. It's okay.

Americans are so wound up about **

I don't think women should ever cover up when feeding. Gives me the chance to check out her **. If you want to flop them out when I'm around, you bet your ** I'm gonna check them out.

I think that doing that has to be fine with her. Just don't sexualize it and whip out your **. Keep your cool and just keep comments personal. But yea. Take a look at the kids fridge and call it motherly love appreciation.

Obviously if she's pulling her ** out in public she must be fine with everyone checking them out.

I agree.