Emasculated
My wife has always been a fun loving, uninhibited, incredibly ** woman. I love her more than life itself and cannot imagine life without her. I'm sure she feels the same way about me.
Two years ago she surprised me with a ** and seeing her wearing that thing was the sexiest, most ** thing I had ever seen in my life. It was just a joke. She walked around ** it like a man, fooling around, laughing. We both thought it was hilarious. She jumped on top of me and pretended to ** me and she was so funny.
Then she asked me if I would actually let her ** me. I was so turned on and I thought her surprising me wearing a ** was the most amazing thing she'd ever done. So, I was like "Oh, OK then." After all she let me ** her up the ** whenever I wanted so fair's fair, I thought.
When she put that thing in me my ** got harder than it had ever been and she noticed. "Wow, you really like this." She said.
So, it became a regular thing and every time I ** her she'd ** me. I loved it. She loved it. We both loved it. She'd ** me doggy, lean over me with her ** rubbing on my back and she'd ** me off till I came while she ** me.
Now two years later I can't get an ** unless she has her ** ** in my **. She gets frustrated because every time she wants a ** she has to ** me up the ** for a while till my ** gets hard then rip the ** off and quickly get into position before I lose my **.
If we don't use the ** she cannot get my ** hard no matter what she does.
She's not happy about it and sometimes she says "It would be nice to have a normal **" or even worse, she says. "Sometimes it would be nice if you would just ** me like a normal man." But the sad, pathetic truth is that I would rather her ** me than me ** her.
I'm not interested in having ** with guy and in fact the only person I want to have ** with and ever wanted to since I met her is her. She really is the only one for me. She wants us to go to a ** therapist but I am too embarrassed and I actually like things just as they are but I am afraid that it's putting a strain on our marriage.
I've never been a 'manly' man but I've always been an aggressive **. She always used to say every time we ** was like a surprise because I was so aggressive and I just didn't look the part. She also used to always tell me I was the best ** she'd ever had in my life but she hasn't said that for a long time now.
I don't even feel like a man any more when we have **.
My wife would rather ** me with a ** and have me go down on her than have normal **. She says she likes it much better this way. Our ** life has never been better. I rarely get an ** these days but if I do it's only when she's ** me and she's usually ** me anyway when she's ** me. We only ever do it doggy.
I don't know if you ever check back on your post but I'm curious how things worked out for you and your wife. The same thing happened with me and my wife but my wife is totally happy with it. I don't even get an ** any more but I still ** when she's ** me with the **. I go down on her afterwards and she's happy. We're both happy.
One thing to do is pray to the Lord. Ask Him for help in prayer. Pray together with your wife as this will strengthen your marriage. All the best.
Yes, make begging pious noises at the invisible sky daddy who loves you so much that he's fine with you having these problems. Now whine and cry because you're so persecuted for your beliefs.
Maybe it’s more of a mental expectation type of thing. You like what you like. There’s always a penial implant & she can have it ANYTIME she likes. There’s no effort there.
Dude - pump some iron, get some testosterone flowing and stop with the faggoty ** play.
Try **...
Have you tried taking pills? They work.
Yup. ** therapist. Just do it.