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Can't help it
My wife and I have two daughters and two sons. One of the boys (20) is openly gay, and the other one (14) is starting to exhibit the tendencies. I know I'm supposed to be okay with this, but I'm not. I know I'm supposed to be tolerant and encouraging, but I'm neither. My wife supports the behavior, but I think that's a large part of the reason they are how they are. I'm close to being done with both of them......and maybe with her, as well.
It's been proven, scientifically, that homosexuality is a genetic trait, not a learned one. There are specific differences in the brains of homosexuals. That said, you're going to get a Lot of hate from this confession. I'm not going to be one of them, even though I disagree with your stance.
However, what I will say is this. We All change. We all grow with time and experiences. I would encourage you, even if you can't fully accept your son's homosexuality NOW, to at least keep an open, LOVING dialogue with them. You can say, I don't agree with your lifestyle and I don't want you to bring your gay lovers to my home...in a loving fashion. Not angrily, but kindly. Remind them that you don't love their lifestyle but you still love THEM...that you will always be there for them if they need parental help or guidance or love. Hug them often and hard. If you have trouble talking about your feelings or showing them....well, time to grow up. Your kids still need you. When you're 80 and they're 60, they'll still need you. You're their Dad. What I would not encourage you to do is cut off contact or burn your bridges. Someday, you may change your mind. And even if you don't, when you're 80 and in a nursing home, you'll regret not having your sons in your life.
Aww. Are you sad because there's a chance you'll be the only one in the family who has no desire to go shoe shopping and watch The View?
What is wrong with you. you said you loved me daddy and was that a ** lie hugs **
Forget it so and so much for saying you ** in cared.
Were did you go and I was going too tell you about my soccer practice daddy hugs **
Im home again daddy hugs **
** off so and im out off here and going too text my other friend daddy hugs **
I should off ** gone too my other friends house and drank daddy hugs **
Daddy were the ** did you go hugs **
As a dad I would not tolerate my sons gayness. Not in a million years
Hun i see some off babys are looking for you **
You ok husband and love you **
You there hun **
Hun there is something going on as i said with wifi **
You ok hun and my babys are home with my friend. i missed them so much. wifi is acting up a bit again hun. hope ot went hun **