I can't move on

I still love him. I've been with the current guy for 11 months, and I've been completly faithful. Were good together. But I still love my ex. I cry myself to sleep thinking of him. What if he decides he wants me back? How can I do that to my guy?
Why can't I move on afer a year? Like really...we only dated for 3 months. And we don't want anything the same for the future...so why can't I move on?

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  • He's your ex for a reason. Don't make the same mistake twice. Stay with the good guy, especially If he's marriage material.

  • I'm still in love with my boyfriend of only 3 months as well, except that he has a new girlfriend and I haven't dated anyone. It's been almost a year since we started dating. I've taken the time to be "alone" as you should now. I know that when the right person comes along I will be with them, because I probably will never get my ex back. It will be hard, but you should break up with the guy, take some time to yourself, and see what happens. You may get your ex back or you may meet someone else amazing. Good luck. *hugs*

  • ^ I was about to post that advice. Too soon.

  • Obviously you tried to move on too quickly by getting with another guy. You should tell your current guy how you feel, so you don't put him through more pain later. Then take a break with him, and just be alone for a while until you figure yourself out. You're doing your current boyfriend a horrible disservice and you should think about what you're doing before you be any more of a b**** to other people.

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