Had to Choose

Two months ago I had to choose between the guy I was in love with for three years who broke my heart but finally came to his senses... or the new guy I was dating.

I chose the new guy... in fear of getting my heart broken once again. And I have grown to love him very much... he is just wonderful.

But the love I feel for him is not nearly as intense and passionate as my love for the other guy was. And i don't know if that is because our love is so new... or if it just isn't there. I had three years to intensify my love with the other guy....

Feb 28, 2011

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  • I just got out of a 3 year relationship. I can not even compare that to my first love (only lasted 9 months). Yes I loved the one I was with for 3 years, but it could never be the same as my first love. Thats how first loves go sadly.

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