I Use My Boyfriend
I've been using my boyfriend for over 25 years.
He drives over an hour to my house every Saturday. He arrives in the late morning and leaves in the late evening.
He brings me presents when he comes to my house.
On those rare occasions when he does sleep over I make him sleep on the couch.
He goes "Honey Do's" around my house. Like make me a deck. Fix my screened in porch. Clean my pool.
He got a DUI during one of those Saturday visits. He had his licensed suspended for 6 months. Could only drive for business. He still drove that hour trip to my house with a suspended license. He HAS to see me every Saturday.
During the week he would make that hour drive to my house, mow my yard, then drive back home.
He would make that drive on Saturday and babysit my kid when I had to work. Free babysitter!
He paid for numerous vacations for me and my kid. I would NEVER pay for a vacation for him.
He wants to marry me but I refuse. Why should I give up this free stuff.
He had kidney stones one time and was in pain. I called him a baby.
So, is he stupid or am I a mean evil person?