Just found out I guy I’m falling for is married
I met this guy on a dating app a few months ago and he was pretty much exactly what I was looking for (sexually). I’m a closeted bisexual man and I was very worried and scared about meeting someone but he made me feel so comfortable and the first time we met and hooked up it was very natural. So we started messaging more often and it turned from just s** into something more intimate and romantic, I could actually feel myself falling for this guy. So recently we met up again and after we’d spent hours just talking and hooking up, he just says (really relaxed and blasé) “my wife is going to be so mad at me for being late tonight.” And he was being completely serious. I felt my heart shatter and now I’m sitting here wondering if I could literally ever see him again and I just feel used. Especially as he was my first male experience and I feel lowkey traumatised. Has anyone got any advice?