I like a girl but I'm not ready to date

I got out of a rough relationship a few months back. Since then I've basically had no interest in anyone. Then this one girl, that I used to be friends with a few years ago, and I got back into contact and started talking. At first there was no interest. As time went on and covid restrictions started to become more laxed we started hanging out and truthfully it was just nice spending time with someone. Mostly we did things like longboarding and playing card games and just talking.

However as time went on how we started talking changed and we started kind of flirting. The thing is that neither of us are ready for a relationship but like she is the first girl I've been able to be around and actually want to get closer to.

I like her but I don't want to move forward with a relationship with her if neither of us are ready... Like for myself because my ex fiancee cheated on me and I'm still not over that I don't want to go into a relationship and then be incapable of trusting them... And I mean I know everyone has baggage but still.

I guess I just want to be able to admit that I like her to someone.

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