I’m so scared

I just got engaged to my African American boyfriend that I’ve been secretly dating behind my very racist family’s back. I love this man dearly but my parents warned my siblings and I that they’ll never accept anyone in the family who isn’t white. I love this man, but my parents will never love me again.

Sep 21

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  • It is possible that you may alienate your family. But in my experience most families eventually accept the person that you love. I have seen it time and again. Even very racist people can adjust and change their minds. If you have a strong bond with your family it should be okay. One man I know that was extremely racist lives about an hour from where I was raised in Georgia. It is called Sand Mountain.I have not been back in years but it wouldn't surprise me if it was still very dangerous for a black person to go there alone. His daughter got pregnant by a black guy and I thought that he might kill him. It was ugly for a few months. But when she started struggling her dad actually went and got them and let both of them live with him for a long time. When her boyfriend was threatened by some neighbors her dad went over there and pistol whipped a teenager, then proceeded to beat the ever living h*** out of his dad.the other teenager didn't try to be tough. He just ran like h*** when Mikey pulled up. I never expected that and am actually proud of him. You never know. Trust me. It doesn't get more redneck than Sand Mountain. I am too embarrassed to tell you how bad it used to be on the Mountain since it is so close to where I grew up. So you never know.

  • Honey, a little motherly advice.

    Follow your heart. If you love him marry him no matter his color.

    But be sure you take him for a test drive if you know what I mean. Make sure he is hung. You marry for a life time. So make sure that c*** is sooo big that it hurts.

    Trust me. If it hurts now it will be perfect later. Just allow him to stretch it out and make that p**** his own.

  • Good luck to you, hope your family learns to understand

  • If you are an adult then do what your mind and heart say. Be happy with what you want by your choice. Others choice matter nothing! Best wishes.

  • Not only your everybody's parents are special to them and worth die for....but if they are racist you can leave them forever because they are against humanity and one more important thing you are the same moron trying to trigger hatred among people aren't you. Dear kindly help yourself with a Iron rod in your a$$ and die. THANK YOU

  • Wow that’s messed up gfys. She’s following her heart you racist

  • Shut up

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