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What should I do?
I've always been into ** and I'm in a very committed relationship with my boyfriend. I love him to death and have shared every secret I have with him, except for the fact that I like **. I love the idea of being ** during s*x or tied to the bed with a gag. I'm just so afraid of bringing it up to him. I know he likes to experiment but the only things we have tried are different positions. I'm honestly so afraid of telling him, so I avoid the topic of things we could try in bed. Unfortunately it just makes it seem like I'm not open to any ideas. I don't know what to do. We have been dating for 2 years now and I really love him. Should I tell him?
I think you should tell him. It is who you are. Nothing to be ashamed of or even self-conscious about. Once you do, and you discover that he wants to explore it with you, you will be soooo glad that you did !
You can try to find ** games , like adult truth or dare games , I have played some like that and there is usually a part of the game that brings up ** and other ** stuff, you can then say that you find it ** and ** when you guys played and see how he responds to playing again, eventually you can keep introducing ** to your sexual routine without playing any games, be honest and clear about how exciting it is for you , no need to bring up previous sexual encounters unless you can see that he finds that also exciting, I have also at one time given my husband a Christmas gift ( private one ) it was a small box that contained
( handcuffs, collar and leash , and a one page “ ** slave offer “ good at anytime for specific time , )
You can add some ** leather lingerie if you like and this way you can get his interest going,
Good luck and have fun being naughty
M
Yes , tell him. I'm sure he has deen thinking about tiying you up himself and using you like the dirty ** you are..