I think i messed up big time

When he first met me he fell for me and told me. I've always been afraid of starting relationships with a man i have doubts about. I lied to him and myself by telling him i fell for him as well. We started talking for a week until i had to tell him the truth---i was afraid to like him more than a friend. As time went by, he forgave me and we became best friends. I recently realized that I'm in love with him... when i told him he rejected me completly to the point where we are no longer best friends. Im so close to deleting his number out of my phone because of all the times ive been tempted to call/text him. Its too hard to move on. What should i do??

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  • it turned out not to be a happy ending... just found out that he's talking to someone... i started a fight with him cause of it... now i lost a best friend all over again. Im done with it this time and i mean it.

  • I love happy endings

  • I texted him last night just asking whats up and asking how he's been doing... he texted me back telling me that I'm a complete stranger for not talking to him for the past week. I told him that I've been waiting for some kind of phone call or even a text from him all week and was dissapointed cause i didnt get anything. He told me that he was doing the same and just waiting for me to talk to him. I got to see him today and i was more happy then ever. Now i think we are back to normal :)
    I'm definatlly going to take it slow this time and just wait and see what happens with us

  • Trust me I've been in the same position. Could you try to get a hold of him again? because when I was in that position I talked to him face to face and we are happy together now. Keep your hopes up. I know it hurts but i you really love him make it happen!

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