I am seeing two men. Both are attractive, smart, funny. Both are great guys. And neither one knows about the other one. One lives close, and one is long distance. Maybe it's because I've had my heart broken so callously and so frequently in the past, but I don't even feel remotely bad about it. In fact, I intend to keep both until one of them breaks up with me (and I'm quite certain from my experience, that one of them callously will).