I can't be with you

I've been hooking up with a guy that I knew was in a relationship. I always said I would never ever do that, but it had been so long since anyone showed any interest in me that I couldn't help myself. Also - he's super cute. I'm not going to go all fatal attraction and break up his relationship, but he's all I can think about right now....even though I told him I could 100% do a friends with benefits thing without getting attached. It makes me feel like a bad person and a w****, even though I'm honestly not either.

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  • OK. He's not married. From that angle, it's not that bad. Seriously, has he committed his life to this girl? If he's not married, he hasn't.
    The real issue is that you are having s** with him and he is having s** with someone else. If you all were just talking and dating without the s** nothing would be wrong with it. S** is too precious to have with someone who isn't keeping themself just for you! Despite if they are in a relationship or not. Don't degrade yourself like this. There are lots of guys who want to be a one woman man.

  • Heh. I just went through 3 months of that. This weekend was his deadline to break up with his gf, because he wants me to stay with him for the summer instead of me going back home.

    He didn't. And I hurt.

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