Crushes are messy.
I've been in a relationship for 3 years. In the first year it was great but after that, it's gone down hill for me anyways. My boyfriend gives 100% and I feel like I'm giving maybe 20%. I'm looking to live my life and not settle down. There is this guy I work with who has really caught my attention. We share the same passions for things and it's easy to make each other smile. He's funny, out going, and hes very caring. He's looking for a relationship but a laid back one. We seem to flirt all the time but at the end of the day, nothing ever comes from it. I want to make sure he has feelings for me before I do anything to break the relationship I'm in. Should I just come out with it or wait for something to happen while being miserable waiting.