My daughter and I started smoking together

I heard of this site and thought I would post my positive experience to something that is thought of a negative. My daughter was blessed with above average intelligence. This resulted in her becoming very bored in school. After consulting my sister who is a child psychologist and with the school’s approval she skipped some grades in school. When she was 13 she was a sophomore in high school. She continued to do very well in her studies. She had always been shy and introverted. Being a 12- and 13-year-old in high school only exasperated that. She began becoming withdrawn and not participating in anything other than her studies. I talked with the principal and she confirmed that although Janine was not bullied or ostracized by her fellow students she was not included in many of the activities. Janine was asked to join but she usually refused or did not stay involved. I was very worried and after her sophomore year I asked my sister to speak with her.

My sister told me Janine had always been different and had a hard time relating to others her own age. Additionally, by placing her in an environment with others older than her we were not helping the situation. She also thought if we had allowed her to progress through school at the normal pace it would have caused worse problems. My daughter and I had a good relationship. I have a PhD and teach at the local university and understand some of the issues she is facing. My sister thought we had to come up with something that helped Janine increase her confidence and self-worth.

My sister came up with a solution which I thought was ludicrous. My sister was a smoker and had been one since she was 16. Both our parents smoked but I never took up the habit. My sister thought Janine should become a smoker. At her age it would be something that she would think adults did and might possibly give her self-confidence. My sister told me that was the way she felt when she took up smoking. My sister had been quite and shy as a young teenager. The only problem she could see was Janine would not start smoking if she thought I would not approve. I told my sister how stupid the idea was and after some more discussion I told her I would think about it. A few days later we discussed it again and even though I thought it was a big risk, I told my sister I would tell Janine I approved if she would teach her. I did not want her to learn from some kid. That was when my sister told me just telling Janine I approved would not be sufficient. Janine looked up to me too much. She hit me with the next bombshell and told me I would have to start smoking with her. After another long discussion I agreed.

My sister came over on a Saturday for lunch with 2 pack of cigarettes. One regular and one menthol. I talked to Janine and told her things were very stressful at work and her aunt had suggested I start smoking to relieve the stress. I told Janine I was not going to start if she disapproved, and I thought if I was going to smoke, she could start as well. To my surprise, with little hesitation she said if I was going to start, she would too. My sister lit us each a regular cigarette and gave it to us. She spent the next few minutes showing us how to smoke. We did not inhale and after that first cigarette we ate lunch. I asked Janine how she liked it and she said it was kind of nice. After lunch we each lit our own cigarettes and learned to inhale with a little coughing involved. Before my sister left after dinner, we each smoked 4 or 5 more. I liked the regular cigarettes and Janine did also. My sister suggested having 5 or 6 the next day starting with coffee in the morning. Together we finished the pack my sister gave us and had to get more. I bought Janine her own pack, a lighter and an ashtray.

The change in Janine was amazing. My sister was right. I allowed her to smoke anywhere I smoked including in public. She began to talk more openly and seemed to stand up straighter and carry herself more confidently. She was more willing to do new things and we had a great summer. I had no classes, so we went on a couple of min-vacations and she even started talking to young boys. Knowing she would have trouble with school rules about smoking I tried to keep our consumption down to about half a pack a day. When school started again Janine was definitely a smoker and proud of it. At the teacher-parent night after a couple of weeks after school st7arted the principal pulled me aside and told me the change in Janine was noticeable. She asked what had happened and I confessed what my sister and I had done. Rather than scolding me the principal said she was a smoker and thought we had done Janine a favor. She said she would have to enforce the rules but would give Janine a little slack if necessary. Janine made some new friends with the older students. One girl needed help with her studies and Janine helped her. In the process Janine taught her friend how to smoke. The school had an open lunch policy and students could go off-campus. Her friend had a car and each day she took Janine off campus for lunch and a cigarette or two.

Janine graduate with honors in the middle of her senior year. Because of her age (15) we thought it best she start college at my university so she could live at home. Because of a program between the high school and the college and advanced placement courses Janine started college as a sophomore with 45 hours.

She continued to smoke and increased to a pack a day. My sister told me I would like smoking, but I would never have believed how much I enjoyed it. I had to watch myself so I would not smoke too much. Luckily, I was a well-liked professor and demand for my classes was high so I was teaching several classes. This limited the available time to smoke. Janine and I continued to be close and maybe even enhanced that relationship. Janine continued to make friends and became active in many of the event at school. She finished her bachelor’s and got her master’s. Then she had to go away to get her PhD. That was probably more traumatic for me than her. She announced to me she found a boyfriend and after a few months they moved in together. After she got her PhD they both moved back home and she is now teaching at the university with me.

The pandemic influenced us. Being at home without classes I started smoking more and got up to 2 packs a day. Janine and her boyfriend live a couple of blocks away and we see each other often and she also increased to a couple of packs. With the state opening up and classes beginning again we are trying to cut back.

I will be forever grateful to my sister and would never have thought that allowing my daughter to smoke would change her live so much for the better. I truly enjoy smoking and wish I had started when I was a teenager when my sister tried to get me to smoke. I know it is not healthy, but it probably saved my daughter from a life of fear and lack of confidence. She is now well liked by her students and really seems to enjoy life. She loves and is loved. We have both been smoking for 10 years now. I will always think that allowing her to smoke helped her to get to that point. If she has a child similar issues, I am sure she will do the same thing.

Aug 15, 2021

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  • One woman was a heavy smoker on cork filtered Marlboro 100s full flavor cigarettes. Her daughter wanted to smoke cigarettes also and she told her to wait until she was 16. So on her 16th birthday the daughter started smoking herself and fell in love with cigarette smoking. Unlike her mother the daughter got on Newport cork filtered full flavored 100s. On a good day she'll smoke 2 packs a day. Now the daughter and her mother can puff away together on long strong cork filter cigarettes to satisfy their constant cravings for thick rich cigarette smoke. The daughter said that she doesn't wake up in the night to smoke but if she does awake and get up she'll enjoy a cigarette before going back to bed just because she loves that cigarette that much. They can't imagine a day without lots of cigarettes, I'll bet they have some big ashtrays in their house with the constant smell of cigarette smoke from these 2 chimneys.

  • One woman said a dear friend encouraged her to try a real cigarette when she was smoking lights at the time. The dear friend was a Marlboro full flavor 100 smoker. She tried the long strong cigarettes and made the switch to Marlboro 100s. At a solid pack a day she described her first cigarette in the morning saying something like it was her addiction taking over because she would drag hard long and often after not smoking the whole night and described how wonderful it felt to puff her lungs full of thick rich full flavor Marlboro 100 cigarette smoke. She said she always followed it with a second cigarette because she needed nicotine so bad and loved getting it puffing away on a long strong cigarette.

  • I was on vacation and saw a mother and daughter smoking together. For them it was no big deal, the girl around 14 was already an established smoker and had a little sister. How long before the little sister asks mon when can I smoke?

  • I saw a girl driving a car one day with her mother in the passenger seat, she looked like a new driver, but there she was a big long fresh lit cigarette on the steering wheel sticking up high for everyone to see the cute young smoker. Another cute sweet little woman used to drive up my street all the time going to the store and every time she went by she always had a long cigarette in her hand on the steering wheel. Another super dainty looking woman I used to see driving in to work and she had her long white cigarette in her hand on the wheel. Another time she got in her car to leave and immediately lit up a cigarette then drove away with that fresh lit cigarette protruding from her mouth looking so adorable i had to go smoke heavily after that.

  • Where did you see this?

  • I saw a mother and daughter leaving the grocery store and we drove away side by side. When we got to the stop sign I looked over and they were light up Marlboro full flavor 100s with the big cork filter. Another super sweet innocent looking woman I saw shopping at the same store then when I got outside there she was puffing away on a fresh lit cork filtered KOOL Super Long full flavor 100. I was stunned that such a precious sweet innocent looking woman could puff so much on such a long strong cork filter cigarette. So was so precious innocent and sweet and with a cork 100 cigarette she looked so neat.

  • I saw this precious woman come out of her car to bring her groceries into her house only this woman had a cork 100 cigarette hanging out of her mouth. She went in with the groceries in her arms and her cigarette in her mouth and then she came back out for more groceries and the cigarette was still hanging out of her mouth. Cork 100s are great for dangling and this precious woman just loved the quality filter time the constant cigarette flavor of the long warm soft smoky corked filter parked on her lips as she filled her oral cavity with a long strong cigarette. I looked on with a cork 100 in my mouth as if to say I love dangling my cigarette too I love a cigarette hanging out of my mouth just like you.

  • I had lunch with a friend who at the time was around 15 or 16 and her mom. As soon as lunch was over out come her pack of Marlboro Red full flavor 100s. She lights up in front of her mom and everyone else and starts puffing away and blowing a lot of smoke everywhere. Her mom knew she smoked and didn't say anything as she enjoyed her favorite desert Marlboro full flavored 100 cigarette smoke. She loved to suck she loved to blow she loved cigarettes as now you know.

  • I saw a mother and daughter at a flea market smoking Newport full flavor 100s. They really stood out with those long cork filters. A while later I saw them again at the stores close by and there they were puffing away on more Newport 100s as public displays of heavy cigarette smoking with long strong cork filter cigarettes.

  • I know a gal around 20 years old that moved here from somewhere else and moved in with a family member who smoked Marlboro 100s full flavor. She tried her Marlboro 100s and didn't like it at first but kept trying and got hooked like a fish, a Marlboro 100s full flavor fish. Within a couple years time she got up to smoking 2 packs of Marlboro full flavor 100s a day. Now she's a full blown full on full flavor full filter full length full fun heavy smoker chimney girl head over heels in love with heavy cigarette smoking full flavor Marlboro 100s. She chain smokes all the way home from work and when relaxing she can easily smoke 5 cigarette in an hour, even more when she's upset. Looking back she can hardly believe she didn't like smoking at first because now she's got a constant cigarette thirst. She loves to full up her ashtray, she loves her life the smokers way she super hooked and sucks and puffs away full flavored 100s two packs a day.

  • I saw the sweetest most dainty innocent looking woman I've ever seen but there she was with a fresh lit long all white cigarette hanging out of her mouth. I saw her at work almost always smoking probably 2-3 packs a day. Going in to work and leaving with a cigarette. She puckered up on her long cigarette like she was hugging it with her lips and kissing it. Cigarettes were the love of her life, she's a thousand times more hooked and in love with cigarettes than she ever thought possible. She had the classic style the innocent touch she's so dainty and she smokes so much.

  • Sweetheart you're smoking way too much. Every time I turn around you got another Marlboro Red full flavor cork filter 100 hanging out of your mouth. And you're sucking harder and harder on those long strong cigarettes and blowing bigger and bigger clouds of smoke. All the while you act like it's the most wonderful pleasure you've ever had. You're constantly engulfed in cigarette smoke and in a nicotine stupor all the time and your 2-3 packs a day habit is getting very expensive but you don't care cause all you want is another cigarette.

  • Winston cigarettes had an ad for the full flavor cork filter Super king 100s with a mother and her daughter that looked about 16 and the daughter is lighting her cigarette. Here's this sweet innocent looking young woman lighting up a long cork filter ultra strong high tar and nicotine cigarette while her mother looks on with a cigarette in her hand. The daughter got hooked and became a sucking puffing cigarette loving chimney like her mom and loved having a fresh lit cigarette hanging out of her mouth.

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  • You are the biggest spreader of bull s*** here. Smoking is all but dead.

  • Lol this person says alot

  • I don't think 2 sentences is a lot. LOL

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