I attract mentally retarded men.

I don't know if it's because I have a brother that's mentally retarded or that there are so many people in this area i live with disabilities. My IQ is low but not low enough to be considered retarded. The only men sending me messages on Facebook asking for a date or telling me that they are interested in me aren't anything more than mentally retarded. I have dealt with this issue a few times before and it's so hard to come up with words that wouldn't hurt ones feelings. How do I prevent it from happening again? Why does this happen? I guess the best thing to do is to tell him that i would rather meet in person and hang out sometime before deciding on dating and that I want to take things slow and maybe they'd understand. Anyone got any good advice on how to deal with this in a positive manner? How do I keep this from happening again?

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