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Lesbian ** Masturbation
I caught my wife masturbating to **. She did not know I was watching wondering am I not enough. The worst part is the ** was nothing but girls licking and tonguing **. No men were involved. I may not lick much, but still does she want a girl to eat her or does she want to do the eating. She is only 23 so is it must be new to her or has she been having this idea a long time. I confess I need to know what is going on with my wife's brain.
Lighten up and use an understanding approach such as, honey have you thought of a **?
So many factors could be at play here. Two people in long term relationships rarely desire the same frequency of **. What is ** is often novelty or newness. Sexuality (gender preference) is now looked at like a spectrum of colors rather than just 'black and white'. Your wife may be a little bit to a lot gay and fantasizing about something she can't get (enough of) in her married life. Fantasies can be powerful drivers but not mean anything. Imagination can grab something and not let go but can't be anything but harmless until a person acts on them. Sometimes a person might just want to get off without all the hassle (and time requirement) of dealing with another person's needs. She may not have been comfortable coming to you and saying "hey hon, I just need you to drop to your knees and lick me until I'm done". I imagine that you are not without incidences of "alone time" during your marriage, or a visit to a **, or even gotten an ** at some titillation in a movie.This is not necessarily a betrayal, it's just hormones.
It could be a lot of other things that are akin to betrayal, though. I think the best way to find out is to ask her. It will be awkward but it may improve both of your lives!
She may want you to join her with one or more of her friends