settling

This OP has perhaps written the smartest confession I have seen in quite some time!
Bravo poster!

It's awesome that you know yourself well enough to know what you want. That's a rare trait. Do ya thang, baby!

There is no point to monogamy, very few species on the planet practice it.
So long as you're careful, just have fun.

I know exactly how you feel.

Another plus to a long term relationship is having ** **, In my expierence the one night stand is a tough sell