Secret Smoking and Affairs

Okay, so I am a 45 year old woman and I've been married for 25 years which has lacked spice unless I am hanging out with my bff. The catch is that I secretly smoke, make out with other women and I do enjoy these things quite a bit. My husband is adamant about not smoking but when I am out with my bff, we smoke Marlboro Reds 100s and I've known her since I was 15. We usually have girl nights at least twice a week and yes, smoking is involved with some flirting with other women over drinks.

I will say this in closing: I don't love my husband as I did 25 years ago and I don't regret my affairs either.

Dec 8

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  • Do you.. Truth is, humans aren't designed to be locked down in a decades long marriage. If you don't want to leave him, keep doing what you are doing. Go out, smoke them reds, and bang a few chicks. Live your life

  • Yes have you had ANY affairs?? Men or women?

  • Have you had affairs with men before?

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