Should I tell?

My daughter is 24. She has a history of drug use and legal problems. I know it is not very ethical but as her mom, I try and spy on her activities as much as possible.
Last week I cracked the code on her cell phone. Aside from the numbers to several people I didn't approve of I found a few photos and videos. 2 of the videos show my daughter having ** with a man, although it does not show his face I know who he is. It's her father, my ex husband!!! Daughter is covered in tattoos so identification is easy. After 17 years of lousy ** I could identify his ** at 100 paces.
Should I confront them about it?

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