Letter to a Dear Friend.
Oh my gosh. You have no idea how much it hurts to write this. I feel horrible for what I did, but I had to tell her. You're her boyfriend, not her father. She needs her space, and you don't seem to understand that. I know that you trusted me, and I really want you to know that I NEVER betrayed you before tonight. I only told her that you were asking me about you guys because she had a right to know that you were harassing her friends about it. To be honest, you're too clingy, needy, and have no self-esteem. But you're also an amazingly funny and happy guy at the same time. I just think you have some issues to work out before you can really have a relationship without attaching yourself permanently to your significant other. I desperately wished that we would be able to remain friends even if you guys broke up, but now I see that it isn't possible. I hate having our conversations revolve around her and how she won't text you back. There's absolutely nothing I can do about it; I'm not her mother or yours. You are not my responsibility and I will not babysit you all day. I am on vacation right now and do not want to deal with things that aren't my business. She understands, why can't you?? I love you both dearly, but good God. I want you both to be happy, and you cannot do that if you are together. Even though you're happy, she is not. She feels guilted into the relationship and that is not what you want at all. She will end up resenting you, even if she hasn't already. You're suffocating her and me, and enough is enough. I'm incredibly sorry that I had to tell her, though, because I hoped that I would be able to handle it and get you calmed down again. Alas, I cannot. I am not a magician or anything of the sort. I am a simple girl that tried to make things right between two of my friends. Do NOT blame me for the fact that she doesn't want to get back together with you after tonight. I've had enough guilt trips laid on me to know when I'm being taken on one, and I know how to stop them. Again, I hate myself for having to do that to you, because I know how much you trusted me, but I will not spy on her for you. She is my best friend in the whole world, and I did all I could to help you. If you cannot see that, then it is not my problem anymore. It never really was, actually. Goodbye, Dear Friend. I will miss you more than you can ever imagine. I love you in a most sincere and friendly way. I hope you are happy in whatever you do, even though it will not be with her.