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Married trouble
I am kind of in trouble, I think. If you read this, please chime in let me know what to do.
I got married now. I have known this woman long time and she was always **. Say, she would bring her female friends to our bed, etc. But that was when we were a bf/gf. Now married I thought she would maybe slow down a bit. You know, we are now having a very regular (daily), very satisfying (to me) love life.
But no. She got even wilder now. She wants dp (which I gave her with a toy) and she wants it real (with a 2nd man). I am not all that against this, but I would like it to be in a controlled and safe way. But she pushes on me to do it soon - "just find a guy at Tinder and off we go". Well, I am not into this kind of hurry. I think of STD, of intimacy and privacy. OK to experience things, but not in a haphazard, risky way.
So I am not sure what to do now. I think maybe to divorce her. It feels a slide with her. I believe once she gets her dp she will want other, far wilder things too. And I am not into having a wife that is everybody's wife.
The point is I am very attracted to her. Physically that is. Emotionally not so much anymore.
Let me know if you have any insight or related experience. It is hard to make decisions sometimes. When all outcomes seem dumb.
No problem here, if she wants dp, you can get another woman at the same time, tell her yout ok with it it, BUT if she's really into this you want to join a ** site and hook up with other couples that way you both get something out of it, and know your going home with each other, it's just for fun. And Yes believe me it's Very hot, Done this several times , enjoy it every time.