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I'm Bi but can't find the right situation for me.
I've lived a life that is straight and have seemed as much from everyone around me but have always felt, always known I am Bisexual. Definitely more on the straight side but have always equally had the same ** desires ever since having any sort of ** thoughts. I cannot close the deal because the appropriate situations just don't present themselves. I'm not interested in the random meetup/hookup thing with some random stranger, and the full on Gay men I've tried to get something going with ended up being TOO Gay for me if that makes sense. The whole gay lifestyle thing, etc. Aren't there any men out there that are just...fluid in how they approach such desires without being creepy or overkill with lifestyle? Women seem to pull it off, and my Bisexual girlfriends have known exactly what I mean in this.
My thoughts regarding the perfect situation have always been basically a friend who is similar to me but MORE.
Bi sexual men have problems hooking up with gay men because gay men usually want a relationship other than **. Bi sexual men are hard to hook up with because they are afraid their wives will find out and ruin the marriage. My best friend and I have a relationship but I just lucked out with him.
Not all, but they are still just way over the top with having gay as their lifestyle. It defies them, when Bisexual tendencies are just a sideline. If that makes sense? I'm not trying to be gay in my life, just open minded. Maybe gay people are right when they sometimes say that Bisexuality is selfish, self absorbed.
Lucky you.
I’m mostly straight but I have had some bisexual experiences if you lived near me maybe we could be fwb maybe even share a woman
It sounds nice but the challenges remain. What do you look like and what is our vibe like? As I stated, not into just a random hookup or meetup for **. How far? Always stumbling blocks, and online contacts only seem to make it much further from happening.