no intention of cheating,but can't resist flirtin

i have a boyfriend who i love, we're engaged actually, after almost 10 years together. our relationship is perfect. but now i met this other guy with whom i feel very comfortable, i really enjoy talking to him, there's a strong intellectual chemistry between us, but no physical attraction AT ALL, at least on my part, which means i'm not actually interested in him.

but i really do enjoy being with him, and there's a very clear flirt going on, which i feel excited about. and that is something i missed, 10 years into a relationship: the excitement of wondering if he's going to call, the subtle hints, the game...

on the other hand, i don't want to give this other guy false hope; i can't just stop seing him because we're involved in a project together; and i can't tell my boyfriend about this because i really don't want to lose him, i honestly still love him;

but the flirting is so fun, and i missed it so much....

any advice?

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