That I am in love with one of my boyfriend's friends. I can't stop. I have tried everything. I havent really even spoken to they guy in months and I still think about him all the time. I still love my boyfriend but even considering that I constantly question who I am meant to be with. I have been with my boyfriend for four years and this recent development of feelings has put a strain on our relationship. I have no idea how this other guy feels. And as for me Im miserable.