I have been with my husband for 7 years

I have been with my husband for 7 years and we have 2 children together and for the last 3 years of our marriage I have been having an affair with a man at work who is black and also married. We tell each other we love each other , but we both know that we dont want to leave our spouses , cause we dont want to split up our families. I really care alot about him, but sometimes I do think to myself what am I doing?

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  • Have some self respect and call it off. If you can't do that then divorce your family and go wild with your s** partner. But don't be disrespectfull to your husband and children. Make a decision today and stick with it.

  • Dr. Grey?

  • a black man?......Ewwwwwww

  • Once you go black you never go back hahahaha!

  • These days woman are worse than men as far as cheating.. or maybe we always have been, i'ts just that we dont get caught as often as men! And once you're in it.. it is like a drug!! It's so hard to stop!!! it's so funny bcause most woman want nothing to do w/ their spouses sexually after a certain amount of time.. but yet, we are addicted to having s** w/ some other guy! Trust me... I have the opportunity right now to cheat and I want to soooooooooo badly... i dream and fantasize about it almost every day.. but, I haven't done it. I'm hoping I can stop myself before i do go through w/ it. I have a great husband and 3 wonderful kids... it would be a selfish act and what you're doing is unfortunately very selfish no matter how much pleasure you take from it. Just think about it.

  • I feel this way everyday and love the man I am having an affair with but we both know it is not right and we both should stop but he is like a drug HOW do you?

  • listen, my mother did the same thing...now she is suffering from having to pay bils because my parents are divorced my dads rmarrying a woman i hate and my mom is miserable...plz stop for the kids..

  • ::singing:: it's morning and we slept the night away..it happened now we can't turn back the hands of time..yes we've stolen this moment...hehehehe you all need to stop that

  • ::singing:: it's morning and we slept the night away..it happened now we can't turn back the hands of time..yes we've stolen this moment...as we lay..hehehehe you all need to stop that

  • I totally know how u feel!

  • You Need GOD!! He forgives all sinners, but they have to want to be forgiven.

  • glad to see how much respect you have for your husband-

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