PLASE HELP ME!! URGENT!!!

ok, im a 17 year old girl...

im 18 in march, my girlfriend is 14 and is 15 this month...
we're both goths.
i really like her, we've been together for well over a year now, in secret...
her mother(ill just call her sil in this) is well known amongst people, sil once sent people to follow me and my gf, it was horrible, sil acctually paid them...
sil found out about me and her daughter and word got out, i was persicuted, allot...
people who were once my friends and knew about me nd ma gf suddenly became enemies, i couldn't go anywhere, they were watching me all the time.
im being serious, they cyber-stalk me, or atleast they used to...

on many occasions, i have been threatened...

3 times by sil (who is 41)
once by one of sil's best friends (also in early fourty's)

and by sil's sons and theri friends, sils 16 year old son said he'd stab me on one occasion, and also threateneed to set me on fire, and on many occasions said that he would kill me if he saw me (which he hasnt), he has tried to stab his own brother before, he even set said brother on fire, i fear for my safety...
and the safty of my gf...
she fights with her mother(sil), physically...
her mother hits her...
sil threatened to commit suicide in my gf's room cause of me...
i really love my gf and dont want to lose her...
i guess im posting this because im out of ideas...

if i go near them, they'll prob ring the cops on me. but im concerned for my gf =[
ive been dvised to go to the cops, but sil is thought by all to be an almost perfect person, recently she won the local community champion award...
i have no idea what to do...
PLEASE HELP!!!!

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  • im sory to hear that...
    and i will try my best to save her from her family situation, and we're acctually engaged now :)
    which adds a little more complication to the mix

  • ran,away with my gf who was being abused. we had a secret relationship to. i ran away and eventually things crumbled.i still think shes the most beautiful woman ive eveer been with.its been 6years and im married and still feel this way. be careful with what you do to try and save her.my gf left me

  • Someone has to have an iphone or blackberry or something that can record voice. I dont know about there, but there are laws here about muttering death threats. I know a co-worker was charged with it at the bar, when fighting with a hotel employee. Banned from the restaurant and hotel. Meaning the Boss couldnt buy us lunch there.

  • im offended cause im bi and im sick of people calling me gay xD
    and, tbh its my life right, i can do what i like (within reason)

  • "bi is as bad as gay"... don't you post that on everything?

  • For the record liz, i havn't done anything sexual with my gf because of her age, and I'm not a lesbian I'm bisexual. also where I live theres allot worse age gaps than my relationship.

    and thankyou the 1st anonymous commenter =]
    and sixteen is also the legal age where im from (england).

  • The best thing for your girlfriend is to get child services, have her show the bruises her mother inflicts on her after a beating. (Do this immediately after the next beating.)

    Depending on which state you're in, in my state (Florida) sixteen is the legal age. There is no state though that 15 is legal. Therefore, your relationship is illegal. But no one has to know.

    Stand strong, stay by your girlfriend. Get the cops on the mom and also file for a restraining order against anyone if they try to act upon their threats.

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