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My sister is driving me ** insane
My sister is ** me off. It is ** Xmas time and she cannot act like an adult. Every year we go to our mom and her boyfriend's and then go to our grandparents' place on the same day since they live near each other.
We have been planning this day for a month now and just yesterday she starts ** about not wanting to go and how she has plans at 3pm. The town we are going to is 55 miles away and we always spend the whole day there. She can live without her boyfriend for a ** day.
She keeps harassing my sister-in-law because my brother is driving. She is trying to make everybody miserable so we all give in and kiss her **. She even bitched about her being told to sit in the back seat. We originally told her she should drive herself that way she can leave when she wants, plus my brother and SIL have a 3 month old baby now and that takes up room in a ** car. She bitched about that. She is the smallest so if she wants us all to cram in one car, she is in the back beside the baby. I kept trying to ask her for a gift for our niece so I could wrap it and she kept trying to not give it to me. How is that so ** hard?
I am losing my ** mind. She has done nothing but scream at me, screaming that I am full of ** and oh my ** god she is screaming at me now through my door as I write this about nothing **.
Why can she not act like a ** adult for one ** Xmas. My SIL has severe anxiety and it messes her up with all this stress. My sister is literally ** Satan. She is violent and has attacked both me and pushed my dad's ex down our ** stairs. Two years ago on Xmas eve, we together bought our mother a set of rare Boyd's Bears plates, bowels, and mugs and she got angry and ** stomped on them and tried to attack us all with the broken glass. She has come to my door at 3am and screamed at me and bodyslammed my door until 5am. My dad has always ignored it and he is probably pretty happy she makes me the victim.
The amount of stress this one single ** is getting to become too much. She has been a spoiled little ** her entire life. I cannot even move out cause I work for McSatan's and it is the most ** company I have ever worked for.
I once even called the cops on her and the cop ** yelled at me and told me to get over it when he got here. She only ** threatened me with a gun.
She is very clearly a narcissist but she will never get help for it. Why would she? She thinks she is most perfect person who has ever existed. Except Jesus. She will ** at you about Jesus and God ** if you do not believe in the fairytales. Her pregnancy at 12 with her boyfriend who shared the meth lab with her was not sinful at all cause it is her and she cannot sin. Also LGBT+. She will remind you about how trans people and gay people should be legally killed cause to her it is not morally wrong. Just as long as you adopt any children they may have. It is okay then.
I have not even scraped the surface in this about how much of a horrid person she is. I honestly am feeling like I am no longer able to handle this stress. I am working part time and going to college full time. I already have enough to deal with. I needed to vent and just do something about this stress.
Dude, record her attacming you. Then beat the ** out of her. Boom, self defense.
Most people forget that the holidays are about giving (not monetary gifts) and love. They get so caught up in what everyone else thinks they should or shouldn't do that it causes problems. People will literally go in debt to make sure everyone else is impressed with what they purchase for others.
If you want to know the true meaning of Christmas than go help a homeless shelter feed those less fortunate than you on Christmas Eve. Take the time to make conversation and listen to their story. You may be surprised what people have and will go through in their life. And just letting them have a friend for an hour is gift enough.
Well said my brother or sister. Well said.
I'm in my 40s and don't even attend family holidays anymore. It's way too much stress, high expectations, and it's much better to just visit family on casual non-holidays. It's more fun and genuine too. You should just boycott the whole thing next year. Maybe have lunch with your sister a couple times a year, though you don't seem to like her much.
Why are you so angry? It's Christmas