I'm kissing a boy that likes me even

I'm kissing a boy that likes me even though I have a boyfriend. I'm at college and the boyfriend is back home and too busy to communicate most of the time. He says he trusts me. I trust him. I just want to get some sort of thing to measure my boyfriend by because I've never had another relationship and I really think my boyfriend is the one. Except he can't be, can he, if I'm kissing this lad here? But it's a purely physical thing here, plus it makes my friend here emotionally happy. Win-win for me, were the boyfriend not in the picture. And he's so far in the picture frame that it feels win-win. I know that over Thanksgiving I'll have a serious conversation with the boyfriend and come to a conclusion and either break up or cut physical ties with the friend, but until then I have a month yet and some stupid part of me is determined to play to my body's content. Kissing and cuddling. But still.

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  • If you thought your boyfriend was the one, you wouldn't be making out, with another guy :) However, that's just my opinion.I always believe, that if you're in a relationship with the person you love and it's a happy /healthy relationship, then you wouldn't pursue, other people.But I'm aware that, sometimes a person can love, more than one person.But that doesn't excuse, cheating.Even if you aren't sleeping with your friend and just at the kissing stage, you still have a boyfriend.What you're doing, is unfair to your boyfriend and unfair to your friend.Not unless, your friend gets a hard-on and secretly likes knowing, he's making out,
    with a taken woman :) Some people, find that kinky.Each to their own :)
    Everyone has differing opinions,circumstances and values /morals.Whatever your decision is, I hope you make the right choice x

    Good luck

  • Start giving the friend blow jobs.

  • You're just kissing, so don't worry about telling him. If you decide to f*** him, break it off with the boyfriend first.

    -Joni

  • Cheating is cheating. Enjoy h***.

  • You answered your own question, as you are going to eventually break up with your bf anyway. You might as well cut the tie sooner, rather than later. Your bf will be better off without you and you will be happier as well. Good luck.

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