Cheated on.

My boyfriend cheated on me. I had always promised myself that if this happened I would break up my boyfriend and never turn back. But he has promised it will never happen again and says I'm the only girl he wants to be with. He is even going to counseling. I'm still furious! I don't know if I can get over this. Has anyone been cheated on and still managed to have a successful relationship after the fact?

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  • Agree with the second comment. ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER! He may go through counseling now and get a little better, but later on when temptations arouse him once again, he will collapse. Trust me. A cheater obviously has an addicting behavior and addicting behaviors can be treated, but have a very VERY high chance of collapsing again.

    I'm sure you deserve better sweetie. Move on.. please even if it will be tough. Life is tough. You learn, grow and overcome. Don't lower your standards by staying with someone who has hurt you.

  • I'm currently going through the same situation as you...
    I'm still with him, 2 weeks later, but its been a very rough go and my trust for him is on the floor.
    I feel that its worth a go, because I do love him and it makes me happy when I'm with him. You just need to decide if it's worth holding on to.

  • Drop him. Get tested for Stds.

    Once a cheater always a cheater.

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