I wish I knew the right way to go

I have fallen for a close friend who didn't make his first move until 2 months before I moved a thousand miles away. I thought it was just a fling before I left town, but I can't help but flirt back when he messages, and there have been talks of visits, but no expression of feeling or desires. I don't know what he wants from me. Am I supposed to remain chaste until he makes up his mind?It can be pretty lonely when you're new in town and I have had plenty of offers, some I would be interested in that I turned down because of loyalty I felt to someone a thousand miles away. It's been two months since I left town, and since I am the one that left that life, I don't feel I am in any position to ask anything of him, and so don't want to press the issue. I accepted an invitation for a date tomorrow. With what seems like a really nice guy I have gotten to know a little bit. I feel guilty as h***. It's just that I'm lonely. If he were here i would worship him, but he isn't. He hasn't even told me how he feels.

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  • if he hasn't fessed up then there is no commitment. Enjoy yourself.

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