Still Suffering

My mother's father sexually molested me for 3 years during high school. My grandmother forced me to drop the charges with DHR because she cared more about her reputation than she did about me. That was 5 years ago. To this day, I can't look in the mirror without feeling disgusted with myself.

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  • Unbelievable! People here actually saying forgive and forget about child molestation?! Obviously molesters themselves. Go for it, persecute him for all your worth. Make him suffer for it. Suffer hard. He's deserved it. It is not your fault he did this to you, and you don't need to feel disgusted. But he can't get away with it, no way.

  • I agree with the second comment. Unless it left you scarred or physically damaged, then you should release the past and move on with your life. You don't have to forgive and forget...just let it go.
    And to the first poster: if DHR was called, then I'm pretty sure that it was reported. There's no reason to be ugly.

  • Let it go. I don't know why our society is so hung up on this stuff. So what is someone touched you in a different way or place. Unless it hurt you physically why not just move on? I was molested by a lady when I was 6 years old. To be honest about it, I liked it. I thought it was really cool to be able to touch a woman like that and to lick her? Oh it was great. But then when I told my mom she started getting all psycho about it and I really believe it was her reaction that made me feel bad not the events themselves. But I do understand that it does hurt people emotionally, I don't really understand why we have to think about it the way we do and get all freaked out. Any way love yourself and love your grandma and grampa. Unless he is hurting you physically don't let it hurt you emotionally.

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