Don't want to resent him
My husband is a good man. Right now we're trying to save enough money to buy a house and not live with family. Everytime I turn around he's getting another ticket or ignoring another bill. I work all day and am working towards my degree so I will be able to have a career. I feel like he doesn't see how hard it is and that he never wants to help me. Everything is on me. The bills, money, raising our child with few exceptions. He's out of work right now which makes it worse. I get up and get our child dressed and fed, lunch packed. Then I have to get him up- which has gotten a little easier. Then I go to work, then to school, and sometimes back to work for my other job.
Like I said he's a good man, but I'm starting to resent that everything is up to me. I left him in charge of some financial matters and was waiting for him to act but he never did. I asked him 2 months later if he took care of it and I got "Oh I forgot" luckily I'm on top of things and took care of it. I don't want to hate him, but the resentment is growing.