Whoever said "all you need is love" is a liar. Whoever said money is evil spoke the truth. I love my husband. But he's been out of work so long,i think he gave up. I'd be okay with it if he wasn't so lazy. I know it's cliche,but after working long,stressful hours,i'm tired. I'd love to come home to a clean house and dinner,even takeout. Something! I try to pick up after him,but i can't keep up. He jokeingly says i'm lazy if im not in the mood to go somewhere,or do something. If he worked,or if i made tons of money i'd hire a cleaning crew or we'd share chores. I'm up very early and work till late. He sleeps most of the day. He's not mean,just very lazy. It's wearing me down,and when i tell him he just says to not worry about it or im overreacting. Im gonna burn myself out.