I feel very close to my boyfriend romantically but he is really dumb. So dumb that I have thought that someday I may have really dumbassed kids. The thought scares me. He has a wonderful heart but I feel like we are lacking a intellect connection. I have a room mate who is brilliant and awkwardly madly in love with me. Yet I feel he can converse on any subject with me. I am confused and unsure who to love. I better figure it out soon because I'm not a cheat, physically, or in my heart.