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Watching ** isnt being unfaithful!! its just sexual escape where you can imagine doing anything to anyone without hurting the one closest to your heart

Stop being a **!

So I'm a girl so I wanted to give you another girl's opinion. I've been in a relationship with my current boyfriend for a year and I know he looks at **. I knew he looked at ** before we really got serious-he had it on his ipod which I didn't know when I went to listen to his music (which he had given me permission to do not thinking about his ** stash on there) so that's how I found out... I'll admit that when I first found his ** stash-and he has A LOT-I was really turned off, but I respected his privacy and decision to look at ** while asking him that he not tell me about it or show me because I wasn't interested in knowing about it. My boyfriend, thankfully, didn't appreciate my closed minded attitude and one day asked me if I could please give his hobby (of looking at **, lol) a chance like he'd given some of my hobbies. So I did and showed me a lot of tasteful ** and ** directed towards woman (yep, it exists). And slowly I not only pretended I didn't have a problem with him looking at ** in secret, but became ok with him looking at it openly and even showing me some and us looking at it together. I know he doesn't look at ** because he isn't happy with me, just like I'm happy with him but still check out some of the guys in the ** I see. There's nothing wrong with looking at a little variety or other people's naked bodies or people having **. If there's nothing shameful about seeing your husband naked or him seeing you naked or the two of you having ** then why would it be shameful to see others that way? Appreciating the human body is natural and so is ** and that's beautiful. If you don't look at it with such a negative view before you even give it a chance then maybe you'd be able to see that too and sometimes find yourself looking at it by yourself like I do. (Oh, and ** is a really really good source for some awesome ** ideas, fyi) Good luck and best wishes.

why do all women assume that because a man watches ** that he doesnt think his wife is good enough?

women always feel insecure when they find out there partner is looking at ** but what harm does it do them?

the man still sleeps with them. just because he is looking at ** most likely doesnt mean he is a cheater.

there just as many men who cheat on their partner that dont look at **. if you feel like he's looking at ** because you think you arent physically 100%gorgeous or that they are better than you or whatever, maybe he just likes to look at women naked who dont tell him what he can and cant do or look at, dont ask him if their ** looks big in this and then dont need him to reassure them every time he moves to another video or picture. just because he looks at ** doesnt mean he isnt happy with you. have you asked him?

Trust me it has nothing to do with me, it is just an outlet as long as he is not cheating on u, let it go

You are admitting you are too insecure about yourself to accept your husband looking at **. How sad. Unless he's into some sick **.